Just like the sugar babies always say, they are different from prostitutes and shouldn’t be addressed as prostitutes. To them, they do not sell their bodies for money.
Not everyone has been able to cash out in the sugar baby business and to be able to cash out, this sugar baby shared some tips.
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She said she got into the business when she badly needed money in school and it was one of her friends who advised her to sign up on the app to become a sugar baby. Listening to her friend’s advise, she did.
“After my freshman year, I got really depressed. Me and my boyfriend broke up. I lost [the HOPE Scholarship]. I was really afraid because my parents are super strict, so I couldn’t tell them. One of my friends made a joke saying,
‘You should just become a sugar baby. And I started thinking, ‘Wait, maybe I could do this.’”
The young man had dated and will still date a variety of men — black, white, short, tall, young and even old.
She said the first thing to know is that it’s not a crime to sugar date and that it isn’t the same thing as prostitution. She explained saying;
“Strippers dance and take off their clothes.
The money they make is pretty good and all they have to do is take off their clothes. Prostitution runs close to being a stripper, but they want to be with you for just a minute.
Right now, I could get a gift just for coming and getting coffee. They’re kind of like sisters. Free will is one of the key differences in sugar dating.
Also, it is always important to discuss the expectations wanted from the two people involved – the sugar baby and the sugar daddy
“We discuss income. I’ll ask, ‘Can you really do this? Can you support me?’ They’ll say, ‘Yeah,’ and they’ll usually show some sort of bill.”
“There are weird guys out there who want to do weird things to you.
One guy asked, ‘How do you feel about being urinated on?’ I’m like that’s weird, no. Tying you up, it’s like play, OK. Pain, I don’t do pain.
You cause me pain, and that’s it. It’s over.” She said.
One more important thing she does is trying to know who she is in a relationship with
“I research these people, you know, like pictures. We have to Snapchat. We have to Skype. We have to communicate some way so I can see your face and I know who you are."
She also added that
“It’s not like how it is in the movies, where you find a sugar daddy, and he buys you a car and pays for your school and all of this stuff.
It’s a process. There are girls with really rich sugar daddies who want Louis Vuitton girls, girls who can come live with them in California or New York.
Another thing she does very often is to be open about how she feels per time.
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“If I don’t like them, I’m not going to sugarcoat it. If I’m not getting enough from them, I just say, ‘You’re not worth my time.’
If he’s not texting me or if I don’t feel something, I don’t even bother. If they say they’re your one and only and don’t do much, then why bother?”
To her, it is also important to note that the sugar baby cannot be attached to her sugar daddy.
“I’ll have some friends who are like, ‘Oh, sign me up, sign them up.
Then people start hitting them up, hitting them up and they can’t do it. You can’t be fragile. You have to be a strong person. You can get emotionally hurt. You should not be emotionally attached.
You have to cut emotion. You have to cut mental.” She advised
She confessed that she had met clients who want to get into serious relationships with her. she talked about one of them who is a widower saying;
“He genuinely likes me, and that sometimes scares me.”
She also said that she wishes she was in a genuine relationship because the stress would be far less.
She confessed to the surprise of many that her parents do not know about her sugar life and she was sure they were going to disown her if they ever got to know. So, she simply kept her life and job quietly from the people who were family.
The girl had shared some tips but interestingly, she isn’t proud enough to let her families know about it.
The question is if being a sugar baby isn’t the same as prostitution, why should she be scared of her parents knowing?
What do you think?